Compulsory military love ( written by a girl , I was very moved reading

The first lesson: learn to be tolerant
time in the military he has not called, when he lost the message, when he forgot a certain Day, when he. . . . . . As long as the principle wrong to use a forgiving heart towards him! After all, the special nature of their work, they often involuntarily, your tolerance is the greatest support for them!


second lesson: learn to wait
chosen army green flowers, it means that you can not live like a normal couple, like day and night, you have to learn to wait and wait for his phone, waiting for news of him , waiting for his return date. . . . There alone, lonely there, but there he was, waiting, but also a different kind of happiness ... ...


third lesson: learn to be independent
he was in the barracks, many things to To your face, take care of yourself and not let the army, he worried, anxious. No amount of grievances, in the letter can not say that no amount of tears on the phone can not flow. Sometimes really feel wronged, but think about their hard work, their tired, but they worried about how the heart.


Lesson: Learn to lie in wait
many grievances, worries, loneliness and tears, but in the military when he asked, not laughter poured out his grievances but stronger attachments . Phone jokes and hung up the phone, let the tears down,


Lesson:
for love and goodness, I think every woman will have the most beautiful reverie, gazing at each other, drawing near, but when we choose to love one military, you will find reality and imagination are so many different, very common in terms of others things, but to us it becomes a luxury. For example: when the faceless think he even voices heard; noisy street, see a sweet couple who also want to be holding his hand tightly, but that person is not around. . . . . . In fact, love can not compare, so we must learn contentment, Better than ... ...
think about it, when the barracks, he ended the day of training, exhausted, they were still obsessed the distance you, then a phone call, a text message, even if it is fragmentary, even most common greeting, but also all his love. So, be content it, he has been worried about you in the distance, even his most bitter in the most tired, he still worried about you.


Lesson: Learn optimistic
optimistic view of their feelings, a lot of love girls love soldiers carefully, indeed, the soldiers are too many uncertain factors, distance, time, Some women began to uneasy, can we together? We will be happy? He is sincere it? He could not change it? Women more sensitive
often the simple things complicated. In thoughts of, try to figure out with their own guesses to torture themselves, in fact, give yourself confidence, give him a little confidence, optimism towards the feelings and thoughts to each other in the waiting happier, not better? All anxious, cranky, and carefully into a small Jour do Oh


Lesson: learn to love themselves
not even their own loved ones, how to love others? Waiting for his day, how many ups and downs, how many emotions, Junsao are much more than the common people to bear the pressure. In love him, so he, like him, read him the same time, to love yourself! Let your joy in the waiting point, whether in the mind, or in life, do well for himself, him, he may be more at ease. While the miss was a torment, but from another angle, is a romantic too! So, for themselves, and for him, for our love, to love yourself!