Chinese Marriage

 Chen Tong: Just talking about divorce, child ease of navigation, I agree, but I now believe that the ease of divorce in China than in some African tribes only state high, any country in the world, or that he did not married, if you choose marriage if, in fact, China is more difficult than the divorce, and the price and cost must be high, this is certain. There are many countries divorce, what if not dismissed anything, but the divorce, you pay the economic costs are also very, very large, especially for breach of contract parties. Because in the West in general into a contractual relationship as a marriage, what is a contractual relationship, that is, we two love each other this does not matter, but if we two decided to get married, then what is marriage? Marriage is a contract signed, the contract mean? That is, our lives will never be separated, in sickness and in health, whether good times or bad, rich and poor, we never separate until death do us part, this is called marriage. You promised, OK, one day you can not do that, you breach of contract, breach of contract have to pay liquidated damages, but also pay for liability for breach.

but I think in our China, what marriage vows? I guess not. In law no such thing, I do not think love marriage is immoral, but only about love, as long as there is no love, and to divorce immediately, which is more immoral, than the marriage without love, not ethics. If you just can not get married for love, the two of us always love each other, we do not get married, de Beauvoir and Sartre, as affiliated life, can not get married, you can not say this with love to, not love is not together, no one will ask you to marry, but you get married, and I signed the contract, and then you pick default, tell me no love, this is not bullying it? I fully agree with casual divorce, but I mean that I agree, if you do not have love, you should consider the end of the marriage, but I always think that, first of all marriage is a system invented by human society, and the second Marriage is a contractual relationship, it is a contract, you signed the contract for breach of contract can not just equivalent to a divorce I signed a labor contract of employment, I can go to your work here, I came to you this work, there is another place said give me six thousand dollars a month, and you give me five, I do not come the next day, it seems a problem, that is, in general, be casual breach of contract.

I think this is just my divorce to add. In addition to the tribal African countries, China should be one of the countries most likely to divorce, the.
Second, you do not speak Chinese-style divorce, something which hurt the most? Personally, I think, alive are subject to damage. Divorce is not a divorce, for example, you have never divorced, and no one loves you, you are not hurt? You are lonely. It is the same. Sometimes a lot of injuries are you looking for. A man in love with you, people tell you that this person is not reliable, he may hurt you in the future. But you will hurt you because of his possible future, but today you do not accept the feelings? Few people do that, if he did, in the future will regret it one hundred percent. For example, there was a feeling in front of me, but because Zeng told me that this man aircraft do not fly, so I did not accept him. Then years later, I may regret this incident in particular, I would think, then if accepted, what will happen. So I think, about the damage this incident, should have a normal attitude towards injury, it will hurt people live, which is equivalent to death of people destined to live the same, but you will not be the end of the day life, so you do not treasure life, do not take good care of life, not a good life, as you can because one day you may experience a divorce, injury, you will not go into the feelings, that your life is more tragic than the future of divorce, this is my second point of view.

third point, in the end hurt the big divorce on family members or family members do not hurt the big divorce, I think that when feelings die when You should find a more reasonable way to solve this thing. This thing could be a divorce, it may not divorce. In my opinion, divorce is not a problem to solve the most effective way to it and access to justice as lawyers if you have friends all know that lawyers are like this, usually when you encounter problems, he is first asked you, you must fight this case it? Can not be reconciliation? Stay out of court? He will ask you, because things like that between the two countries, can be negotiated, that does not work, and finally resolved by war. I think so.

Moderator: There are some women said that she was considering divorce because divorce is not how I live, she may be full-time wife, and after the divorce, I will be able to find a new love?

Chen Tong: I personally think that when you think, you will not be divorced. I know a lot of divorce, or faced such a problem of women. Those who ask me, I and my husband what is the problem, and then finally ask you a question, do you think I should divorce? The person who asks me, I never told her, you should divorce. Such as when she asked, she just can not leave. I think this thing is so divorced, you must absolutely never mind, you must be very firm, and had no one to give you the future, you certainly do not divorce, living well? You must have lived a divorce to happiness? No one to tell you the answer. Life is like this, or you have the courage to bear all, and then one day you have nothing lose, I think, you have the courage, no problem, if you do not have the courage to divorce or not divorce you, are in fact the to.
is such a law in some places, such as Japan, have such laws. Every country has the Because of China's But the world is the responsibility of marriage, and not begin with love.