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1, I 25, the foreign doctoral study, had never been in love, but it was chasing. I delicate, conservative. A man of 24, a senior, things are measured, but the stingy, the first time in his confession watching TV, he hugged me, asking me to stay. I used to watch along sister blog, know that if the first man touched you, usually at the heart and do not, then was rejected. after that to each other in a foreign country, friends rare, when a friend can be, but he always likes to touch me, I'll do my girlfriend. there one night with each other naked, the key moment I controlled himself, and he dared not put in here. This is after he apathy that I'm indecisive, I jokingly asked him to ordinary things, are rejected, and I told him not to come to me! he broke out. shun sister, few people abroad, we are in a circle, how to be the future relationship? I'm afraid that others know what night, though I grasp at the critical moment, what to do? others generally feel good!
B male, college students, college has been after me, is his work assignments in other countries, I feel he is heart, character is not bad. He said 10.1 will declare this year, I hope I gave him answer, but I'm worried about my scholarship come back after three years, thinking of the future are not the same degree, how to be? have a foreign friend, send me 1500 dollars TV, because I always want to buy, he knew that would give the money, that could send him to China after the gift, I'll still go back to TV? I do not know how to introduce to others the history of television.
A If the love you, will not disband after the nonsense out. you and do not worry, if he is not afraid others despise him, he casually said, knowing the moment can only praise you still backbone. foreigners TV since it has been received , and then see, so you give him a holiday home with some Chinese specialty, are also considered reciprocity. As for how people explain the history of television, then with you, you can say a gift, you can also say that they buy. no need to invest in these small research effort. you really learn silly. The B Male, 10.1 him declare to you yet? If not, that he spoke off the mark, would not have considered him, if There, you can try contacts, junior high school and undergraduate lacks a common language, but there are a lot of PhD students and undergraduate students can chat, after all, we exchange in life in general, not a professional.
hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh < br> 2, I'm 27 years old, married for a year, her husband in divorce in April I was pregnant, because I did not borrow money from his brother to go abroad (he wanted me to take the money in my mother that his brother), which makes me sadness. Later, the children ask him several times, his attitude is not to have children of divorce. I say divorce can, but must be done first child. He said he had no money to give me surgery, A week later, her husband does not bar operation, and he let me go with him a loan, I did not go, he gave me a message, and I want to split the debt. I leave my child to do, and intend to divorce. I wonder if he Ask of me, can you give him a chance?
not and that people continue to struggle. He's selfish, calculating, vicious, ruthless, has a blatant cover up without the performance out. Thank God it girl, Let your child not born in, still hours of the month, you can enjoy his unreliable, it's difficult to avoid the many complex issues impact on your decision there.
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3, Shun sister would like to ask the next If you, how to handle the following situations? In addition, cis-obsessed sister has not changed her husband a good way to online games?
A. permit has been pulled, not a feast, no children, her husband a relationship with another woman ;
B. has been pulling permits and feast, no children, her husband a relationship with another woman;
C. and the feast has been pulling permits, have children, her husband a relationship with another woman.
A, divorced; B divorce; C, install a blind fool. Also, my man do not play online games, so I did not change the way a husband obsessed with online games. But for you to consider, it is also that you simply can not reform him. Gravity is not our online games online games one can not imagine to. If you want to withdrawal, may need to have a very powerful his personal self-control. The people who have control, it is difficult to indulge in one thing in.
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4, I found a new job mm Customer Service Training School, a half-day classes a day shift work (as early as 9:30 mm14: 00 nights 14:00 mm21: 00). After a week of student and over again interview, soon to be signed, and I hesitated. I already have copies of easy work, pay only 1,000 yuan. I always want to use free time do a job. may need to be present part-time work (not to be imprisoned, time freedom ) well, the shift of customer service work will be very tired, very long time, I do not know the sign do not sign? I can not adapt to the job? only concern is to work, not every day helping children to learn, if children learn pull down to make not up. I have ideals, and I want to do something good, family and career choice kids always make me give up the cause, I dare not put the fear of no greater opportunity to put. I have 33 years old now and find a job so hard ah.
accompany the child to learn to do to you man. Your part is to improve services to families, he is also the beneficiaries, he must support your work, or you bluntly told him: Do you earn money part-time, full is your own private property, and tutoring children so to find the money to spend, and you want him to share, Who does he father a child. to discuss it with him so Do not accustomed to four sedentary men, and even he is father of the things people forget.
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5, I suffered a setback earlier, temperament great changes, very sensitive, moody. boyfriend more than me , mature, during which he though not always at my side, but the best efforts, tolerance comfort to help me. because he was busy with work, sometimes too busy to think, was severely scolded me, or even to mention breaking up. Actually, I just on gas , it can seem to be hearing his mind to go, and were injured. so I'm out of the woods brightened again after they found him a lot of apathy is still good to me, but it does not seem as close as before. I know too much before, So now unprecedented thoughtful tenderness, feelings of trying to re-build. A week in the past is very effective, but you know not to return to previous levels, and now I can not speak too serious spade, and had to worry about his feelings. He seems to also understand that that is how I want to see the performance. I need to adhere to the feelings of complete repair cracks? Or men who suffered a blow, cool down and is no longer possible to recover? he certainly did not others, but the great pressure of work has recently faced mobilization, there are problems not love said to me.
distance tests a horse, to save your work to make up for it, do not insist on no confidence in the week, think about the people before you put up so long, even if you return people can not leave it installed 2 days gentle.
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6, I divorced five years, has Pentium, female. I want to remarry, although failed once, but not desperate for marriage. This year The experience gave me a great blow, so I can not understand the now middle-aged men. give me the impression that they now do not want a home, contact a few, say do not rely on others lives. Of course there are drawbacks, such as personality and frank, not very smooth and slick, so interpersonal relationships flat, like the work of the leadership not get reused. Also, I can not suffer such heavy work, such as long distance, standing Working so hard I could eat them. looks not bad, remarriage, external causes should not ring true. after thinking, maybe my attitude problem on the relations between the sexes.
every contact with a man, I feel they just go to bed that it exists, not to mention everything else, so the attitude, I think they are seriously bad faith does not remarry, and I refused. These men are no longer talk to me, and some say I understand style, no flavor, no feminine, I also disdain rebuttal. not my stubborn old-fashioned sex, gender Huan-ai is normal thing, but there should be the basis of ah, can not see a once or twice, thinking and behavior tempered personality knew nothing about anything when searching on the first bed Fun, right? say, and remarriage It is not easy, too many factors to consider, often more carefully, this way, the chances of success are smaller, therefore, see a sexual relationship took place, the whole process of remarriage courtship whether a trip is full of all kinds of different objects of the journey? It does not, know a few days before the man, see the third side, she pulled me into bed, turned him down, so far no news. I'm depressed, I can not imagine that I problems or other problems?
Oh, we all have problems. First of all that men, after they had married, have increased IQ, EQ is not evolved to a high degree of imagination: they found that married women to go home The cost is too high, not only the risk of divorce on the Property from time to time, and as long as Soong had a wife, think of the mess out to troubled. The people of this animal, nature is the willingness to engage in promiscuous, and men after divorce, the general have decided to live for themselves, especially divorced men had children, they are more afraid of marriage far more than Siege mm detained the body that, ah, also imprisoned all of your fantasy dreams emotions and ideals. Your problem is that you do not enjoy Love's mind, you just want to find a husband. ignores the purpose of the process of suitors, always lost, not now, is the future. can not say what your concept of marriage is wrong, but you can only patiently wait and find, only to find that love and marriage with your husband broadly consistent with the men, that men three days to go to bed, you of course can only be rejected.
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7, I agreed to a divorce a year ago because is an argument ex-husband hit me, then he admitted that errors are not sincere, they separated. a lot of things during my mother seriously ill, I was hit by a car, and so on, he only exposed a few noodles, took some money (a few thousands), there is no audio out. I heard he was out looking after the chickens, think of his performance has been, I disheartened, the agreement to break up, children are the property of his property (his request on the grounds that I have very good ability to independently take children). I feel extremely bad year, he did not have any contact with me. But over the past January, the ex-husband used to say to remarry, said to the child and his family. I would like to ask Soon clever sister: for children choose to compound it? In fact, my heart was cold, forget the injury he had a cold and now I have gradually out of the shadow of divorce, on the right track, what the attitude towards these things?
not to remarry, because he remarried a reason not to mention for you, and tell the truth, he has decided for his own divorce or remarry, you do not fulfill him, to continue to lead the day you're used to.
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8, I 24 , Kenji reading, no boyfriend, I want to get married. juniors have love, get along with two months of unilateral very happy, because split personality. He said that we consider for each other too much, I love to love from the. never knew him, deep, low self-esteem, idealism. I spent two years after the bad times, most recently in emotional control, to show him that the thoughts of love, he said he was touched by the courage I never did come together again. I love him, reality, he was poor economic situation, so I do not see hope. I think with him, or I'm completely out, and everyone could do nothing.
your social circle is too small, so your attention can not be from the this man off of? broke up would not have entangled. forward, forward.
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9, 26 men and 37 women. Men have a small company, recognized for two years, about half a year living together . women at home do not agree, due to persistent female, and male and female family members of women are particularly good, he also recognized the woman's home, the woman saw men and praise him for all good friends. men bought a house, the two carefully renovated, are gonna get married, male suddenly, because of the business flow, and debt of about 200 million, for fear bankruptcy, particularly the pressure, the pressure to think of women more afraid of women and women can not account for the family, so do not want to get married ( No one else has identified men). Female collapse, do not agree. men that did not say is about to break up. man is still very concerned about the women, both or phone text messages a day online video. male to female is actively looking for work, but also proposed to let women ride ass look for a horse, if you have not found a suitable old, he will marry women. woman without telling his family now, women want to hold, but the women feel that men and woman insisted that the pressure has doubled. female to male obsession, can not accept heavy reality. Although they even went as before, fall in love, but the mood is completely different, women in particular insecurity, fear of men really breaking up. shun sister, I worry ah.
Since he does not have to force to break up, you told him that nonsense ignore it. Some people just always want to toss their own satisfaction. but he called you looking any, that the displacement of his mind there. one and a half old male, half-stomach flower around, not always people to be see , you have a red heart used to prepare it, to avoid future Ta.
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10, my husband 31, 36, he was born in rural areas, families in poor condition, and I her parents in the small town, you can count. and her husband in 2003 In marriage, we are 2 married, I have a boy before marriage, he had no children, married we have a girl, 4 years old this year. I live in a small town, public institutions, 1 million a year salary, but it is idle. husband business, about 5 million annual income. marriage, my family does not agree, my family did not pay, the parents did not come forward, which he hold a grudge. about marriage and our kids are pretty good now, but his bad temper, their own shopping a few thousand to buy, I buy clothes he dissatisfaction. usually would not give me money, that was afraid I wasted.
is 2 for marriage, I am very patient, he basically do not do housework, do not talk to me quarrel room. Now the problem is he will not let me play before the children came to our house (not 10 days a year), said today that if he come back, put the children and throw me out. This kind of marriage I can either? I was in his mind I do not know what comes with the nanny wages are not really, not a little respect. But the divorce, my small town, home of the parents, brother, are considered to have a head, face, and I now feel that desperate!
second marriage but also to listen to parents views, you are such a person, marriage does not take into account her family, her parents divorced when most people shield. you pay ten thousand a year, enough for small, less than a thousand a month, if the girls can give up custody, you can also own a food and clothing. So, do not light despair, do not want to thing.
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11, sometimes see you say he was a fire burning on the situation of large classes, he will concentrate on the love the Church. not the home, divorce is equally mouth of property. affair seems difficult to prove, courts rarely recognized. This is not dragging on the aunt fair ah, I really worry about. how to do it?
to practice only in front of the goal volley It is perhaps the specified header. want to give up property, the spouse, to follow the so-called true love, only one way: got married to start pave the way for the future work of breaking up. Of course, you can say all do also used to get married? However, no long and short term, he must worry about, so you do not move the bar aunt now. you aunt still be able to collect evidence, if not proof, it can only accept the reality, Yaba Kui eat it. there is evidence that the other party is at fault party , can help the woman pay would point possessions, like his family is a difficult purification, because the families of men willing to purification, but also all kind of righteousness, so that men are not many. So, ah, just about in front of a cis , divorced from the wedding day preparation will begin.
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12, I am 37 divorced, have a daughter in the side; her divorce 39, also has a daughter by my side. my ex-wife derailed derailed her ex-husband, common experience. We are the same company, recognizing ten years, but no deep contact. last chance to come closer. She was rich and have a car, there are N sets of wards, in my opinion she was living in the community economy that is very high grade species, I have no money have a car, a small general departmental managers to meet the
status quo, contentment. just started talking about marriage, she said, do not agree, send messages to a phone call, with the fun on the trip. She may be near emigrated to Canada a year or two, and asked what I think. our recent progress faster, she is more traditional concepts, we have not slept. we do not have to enter each other's social circles, are invisible. are too afraid of sentiment, fear of another injured. now feel we have invested, and deep. really one day she left, or we have hurt each other, things happen, I may bear against, because the first 10 years of lingering shadow of a failed marriage.
Oh, brother, she was neither a fancy to you, did not fall in love with you, you are one of her firefighter, designed to comfort the lonely. because then conservative middle-aged women, as long as true love with a man, not without affectionate desire, women are willing to love and around them.
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13, my husband and I are Shandong, her husband has been working in the south, in April 2008 after getting married, her husband quit their own business, I followed to the south, where rental housing, I have not been looking for work, mainly by her husband. I will help him work for small favors. economy was decent and the main surface. I was 25 he was 26, going to have children next year. but I am strongly opposed to a good friend that I am now does not work, no income by her husband, instability. who occupied the economic strength and who have the initiative, after a long time, we did not fight hard to avoid conflicts, when my lack of confidence, only by the angry husband. If you want children grow bigger, go to school, find themselves living to do, but at least 4-5 years time, when I can find a suitable job? may be lost touch with society. a woman of childbearing age is the best 23-27 years children two years later I would be OK? friends said I disturbed the original plan was wildly good thing, and I do not know how to do, please help me ideas along sister.
your friend was right, by men support women, usually the final will come down. we expect to raise a man's heart is right, but only if we men do not care when we too live very Wang Xiang.
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14, one has met online three years ago, married women own a small fifteen-year-old unmarried male, the two maintained a three-year lovers. boys without regular employment, both with the woman when the consumer base pay, but the body as long as the money man , or be happy to take women. woman married her husband be alert, and with the recent work of women busy, inconvenient appointments, men have no reason doubt that this woman had to find another lover, often due to minor or a speech or not, play A woman suffered multiple bruising. the woman is suffering, is to break up, leave the man, man has to fight her husband's phone, threatening women, and threatened to kill the woman, claiming that he is bad, women should not even think comfortable. The male mind Women just want to stay with him every day, there is no coercion ask for money. are women near collapse, tried to shake this man, may I ask how to do?
for it, that fiercely? you so much small people, but also willing to accompany you sleep, is that you can figure the cost of providing eat, drink, and mother care, like care, people are enjoying it, you want to transfer or Liaotiao Zi leave here, people who play who is going to eat later? now only exceedingly comfort , and hastened to him seeking a partner to help him spread under your attention. You also quiet life after it, do not think that is the young grass trees can chew.
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15, used to look women reported feeling Edition have the feeling that has nothing to do with their own, 2 months ago found her husband having an affair, which a few of the women reported watching, I watched to tears. feel that they are too helpless, so get your help.
my husband and I know 3 and a half years of marriage, married 4 ½ years, a total of .06 years through 8 years gave birth to my daughter, kids are 3 years old, very cute. My husband is running the project, often away on business, to go in early assignment Beijing, usually a month or two back a few days. husband more introverted personality, what if I do not want to say that there is nothing like a person carrying. but old people are very obedient, like daughter, I always think before He is a responsible man. nothing sweet, very concerned about the home. daughter before I open a shop, and later pregnancy, childbirth, has no control over shop, the shop take care of by the mother for help. This year the Speaking in Beijing, usually home less, I do not have enough concern for him, rarely calls him, usually something only send information or call him. He occasionally go home, I often surf the Internet the night before 3,4 points go to sleep. He 75 years, I, 81 years, I can not cook, do housework and rarely indeed is not a qualified wife. (which is only realized that the.)
July this year found that he cheated , said late last year in Beijing, Chongqing, know who the woman back to Chongqing this year, they met not many times, usually being on the phone and SMS contact. discovered that night, my husband and I talked, he agreed to forget the woman, we start again. The next day I sent a text message to the woman, and she replied that they just physically derailed, her own family and children, call me at ease. may be a few days later the woman in front of my face to the man called and told He went out for dinner. I am angry, called out to meet her husband called her and asked her in the end want to do.'s attitude after meeting with her on a completely different message, saying that love my husband, no matter what I do, she will find my husband. I asked her not to consider his family and daughter? She said she intended to abandon her husband, while her husband does not give her daughter.
such a shameless woman I really do not know how to deal She was in public, I would not be a bitch, I asked her to promise me not to contact my husband a year, if a year later my husband still does not fit her, I fulfill them. I was trying to prevent now contact them, I do not want to divorce her husband, I would like to take this year, good for her husband to restore his heart. She answered only hear half a year, I considered the next, backed out. until early September, my husband and I no problem, I try to change yourself, learn to cook, often take the initiative to talk to him, in his absence, give him the information, told him to remember to eat and the like. until September 10, her husband to return to Beijing The day before I found my husband in mid-August trip to Chengdu, the woman actually went to live with him for 10 days. I completely broke down, phone calls and he had a big fight. He is actively looking for her him, if he did not tell her where he is, she can find him? husband has said that we forget it, he said that we can not go on another.
I asked why, he said that I scary, because this found that they lived together for ten days in Chengdu, I discovered from his computer. I downloaded the QQ from the viewer, found that women have used these ten days, my husband's computer. He said I have no confidence in him, He Hao is only superficial. let him call me, let him go find his happiness. I heard these very desperate, and I yelled to him on the phone, I will not divorce And the woman I want revenge. Then I started to check what the woman is, because her husband about this woman before all have not told me, I do not want to know, so before I know anything about her. Later investigations out, this female talent 22 years old, 86 years, daughter of a half years old, her husband a long time in Shenzhen. Her 3.4 points often go to bed at night, often talk of different men. I found out she was advertising, although I am not advertising understood, but I want to do business is certainly no need to do it at night, I think she must have deceived my husband's place. I put everything I know to call her husband said, her husband said she may be all he clearly He felt that nothing, and told me not up to no good, and I do all useful work.
I then contacted the woman's husband, I thought that let her husband know, let her restraint. the result is that a few days ago, he and her husband came back from Shenzhen away from the marriage, but also did not want her daughter. Now my husband feel that she sacrificed so much for him, and I must say divorce, and can not wait to come back and I'm from. I do not know how to do, and I had often called him, gave him reason, but he will not listen. I also think I said, the more so that he tired of me. So Now I have not called, and also dared the information, such has been dragging on. I do not want to psyche from the ah, and I really can not accept, how I do not know in advance that we are still alive, a I point out to be, and things at this point. Now I am confused, helpless, heart was going to numb the pain, watching all the family, watching her daughter could not help but cry. really do not know how to do? I said so much, you think I'm stupid ah. Really, I feel like I've been dealing with this matter had not done right, all towards the opposite direction to their expectations. I now only This dragging, no longer afraid to move, hoping to get your help, give me a way specified in it. Thank you! Do not say I like a divorce, I would like to make, I want to give her a full house.
ask me now, too late. now look Shunbo, it is too late to have nothing to say Let it go.. And, if you want a little back to the days of flame, it then do not trouble, neatly without a word, and his formalities, happy divorce.
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