Jinkang Yu Yan to give up the fable

 Bees and flowers withered roses, the bees are still hard suck, because it takes before sucking off from this little sweet. But now in this little to spend, the bees suck the poison juice.
bees know this, because the venom bitter taste is the big difference with the previous. So, the bees anger, however, breathe on it the whole world looked up to complain about, why the taste changed?!
Finally one day, do not know why, bee vibrating wings, fly a little higher. At this time, it found, withered roses around the flowers everywhere.
  This is a psychological allegory about love, is a young language teacher in the real sentiment.
some time, she rejected in love, painful, and always wanted to talk about me, I hope I can give her some knowledge of psychology help. We have some time, but almost two months later, the total time they can not happen to get together.
the last time about her, she said: back from Jiuzhaigou. the pain of lost love is still plagued her, let her trance, unable to enjoy the beauty of Jiuzhaigou. inadvertently, she noticed a small flower on the honey bee is. that moment, her mind power flash like thunder appeared saying: words in the bee, of course refers to herself. that moment, her insight to give up the truth out. In the past, she wanted me to help her out, but in fact, the long wings in her own body, she can fly to fly. < br> giving up is not easy to give up love, especially painful. because love is when our young copy of parent-child relationship. young children, no matter from which side, parents can not do without. If Dad Mom Dad completely deny him, and that means death for him, this is the ultimate injury and fear. We have experienced more or less been denied parents the pain and fear, so when the parent-child relationship of love mmm copy once again we experience the pain and fear, our emotions can easily become very bad.
However, compared to love and parent-child relationship, there is a huge difference: a child, nothing we can do everything parents have the final say; But now we grow up, we have the power to choose their own destiny. can be said that a child, we do not have wings, small bees, but now we have one pair of strong wings .
However, when deeply in love, we will return to childhood, we will forget a pair of wings to fly. and so we ourselves realize that, the love is no longer automatically copy parent-child relationship We love to get a free, have the power to give up.
Remember: Love is two things, two completely equal, there are things that people independent personality. You can work,Bailey UGG boots, but not that You will certainly be hard to effect, as another person, you are not around.
So, no matter how much you care about the time love, if another person determined to leave you, please respect his choice.
and , but also remember that you are no longer childhood, are left with the pain of torture. you have adults, you have a pair of powerful wings, you can fly out of a relationship has become poison.
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